My Husband has fallen out of Love with me!?
Out of the blue, you hear those painful words, and your world changes instantly. So what has caused this change? Why does their partner now want to leave and distance himself fromthe marriage? How is it possible to be in love one day, and not the next?
Usually when a spouse or partner “falls out of love” there is multiple reasons. Think about some of the trouble spots in your relationship: Is your sex life Ok? How are your finances? Communication between you? The kids? In-laws? You see the point. It’s not just one thing, but can be many things all culminating into the feelings of him not wanting to be together anymore. This has probably been a struggle for him for some time. He has struggled to find a way to bring it up, and finally has found the courage to let it be known to you.
Have you sat down and talked about your issues? Sometimes bringing the issues out and into the open is enough to get the ball moving. It is when we begin to talk and start to understand how are partner is thinking, that real change can be achieved. The issues become more focused, and we are better able to begin to work on things.
Even if the husband doesn't want to work on things. Even if he feels like the relationship is beyond fixing and no chance for reconsiliation is possible? Remember, nothing is impossible! Even if he isn't interested, there is still time to do the work needed to change his mind.
Be confident in yourself and in your relationship to work things through. Be patient, as things will not be fixed overnight. Have faith that by spending the time working on yourself and your relationship, things can turn around. These are important tools in healing a marriage or relationship.
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