Good relationship advice for any woman should include the importance of Communication. Communication is the key to any healthy relationship. Open and honest communication builds a foundation that all other aspects of the union are built upon. Distance and dissappointment will result if a culture of open dialogue between partners is not maintained.
In the beginning of any relationship, communication is free and easy. You both enjoy being with each other and look forward to the next time you can share time with each other. Over time, and through the complications of marriage, children, bills, and in-laws, dialogue between the two can wain.
Listening is the key to communication. Don't ignore or reject what your partner is saying. Really listen to what they are trying to tell you. Chances are, it's important to them, and therefore, should also be to you.Not listening is the direct road to disconnection by one or both of you.No relationship can survive disconnection.
Watch what you say to one another. Words floated off the cuff can not be taken back. Your relationship lives on the tip of your tongue. Words said in anger or rashness can do irreparable damage. Research shows that five positive things that you say to your partner, are destroyed by one negative remark.
It is important that you tell your partner each day how much they mean to you. Words of affection and affirmation are important in keeping your partner happy and connected to you. Tenderness is always better than ridicule or arrogance. Whisper words of love to your partner, and your relationship growth is guaranteed.
Nurture and cultivate a healthy love life. Couples who have good communication can identify and work through problems much easier than those who do not. Different outlooks and goals can be accomidated when two people are able to be honest and open with each other.
Make it a goal to work on this everyday. The relationship you save may be your own!
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Thursday, June 11, 2009
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